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100 Word Challenge for Grown Ups – Week#79

February 27, 2013

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This is a handcrafted piece of iron; a  perfect unique example of engineering ingenuity. It is the child of the mother of invention; necessity.  When the hunter gatherer decided to settle down and build a home for his growing family, so he needed to protect them and retain his belongs.
He hangs the key around his waist as a talisman of his wealth and new found security.
As it turns in the lock,  the key, serves as a pivotal  symbol of safety and comfort, of hope against fear and construction before destruction. Is it the key to happiness or grief?

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Weekly Photo Challenge … Forward

February 26, 2013

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… and backward.

I have over the past months talked of methods of alleviating pain, that is usually connected with grief, loneliness or emptiness.  So I would like to use this prompt to explain one of my remedies.
First, looking forward and backwards can be cathartic and feel as if it is doing good.
My partner and I have spent many an hour remembering the wonderful times when our children were nearby.  We have reflected on the sadness that we encountered and how we managed to raise miraculously above it.
Then we indulge urselves and dream about returning to Rio de Janeiro and how wonderfu it will be when all our children will be together agsin in the UK and we can enjoy our dotage as loveing grandparents.  Lovely dreams and memories, helpful but not real
Meanwhile months, weeks, days, hours … moments pass in  blind oblivion So to address this simply we make a trip no more than a mile down the road each Saturday and Sunday morning to the same Italian Restaurant; don’t worry not in the same seat but even that would not for me be a concern.
We sit and do whatever comes up; of course in a restaurant our choice is somewhat restrained. Nonetheless, it is a delight, a bolt hole where we have written letters, shopping lists,  done a crossword or two, read the papers,  even written our xmas cards.  More often we watch, be and be seen; over the years we have made acquaintances no more than the nodding kind and on first name terms with the staff who, more often or not have our order ready and waiting!
For a while, this works for us, with its chrome, glass and reflection we need not go forward or back.

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Last week I learned that I didn’t know much …

February 25, 2013

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Last week I learned that I know little or nothing about graffiti.  I understand the concept is controversial and difficult to explain to the uninitiated; but who are the initiated and should we ever know?

Last year, I was with my  grandson on the the South Bank in London, where the walls beside a skate park are covered with ‘works of art’.
He asked ‘Whether it was good or bad to make a blank concrete wall attractive by painting on it? Then he went on ask ‘Whether or not I liked the pictures?’

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These creations I assume are legal l but I understand that graffiti in general is now outlawed in the UK.
I see that there is a need for the artists to be secret and magical; even though the subject matter is far from fairy tales or even comedic.
I wondered even if the political innuendo is above those who were using the skateboard park!
I have learned from a work colleague who was/is a self acclaimed graffiti artist and who has over the last few years found it increasingly difficult to practice his ‘art’ because of the new laws.
He went on to tell me since becoming a family man he can no longer take risks, However he misses the thrill and the Christmas morning jaunts when everyone else is indisposed, he was able to do his thing.  Disguising his every move but giving the finished piece an extra flourish or signature to distinguish it above the others, to those in the know. 

I believe also artists such as Banksy, who have gone a step further away from city street art by making prints and publishing books.  He has perhaps lost some respect in some quarters by those who prefer to keep the edge of shock, impermanence and mystery.
My interest in graffiti has increased since going to Rio de Janeiro; although I have seen graffiti in European cities in comparison they are mere squiggles and thoughtless shapes that reflects the overall impression one gets in some cities with McDonald’s, Coca Cola and Pizza Express.
The Brazilian government decriminalized street art in 2009. Street artists can use a building or monument with the consent of the owner.  However tagging is discouraged strongly; taggers became renown for ‘stealing’ from construction sites to use as a their showcase.

“Brazilian graffiti art is considered among the most significant strand[s] of a global urban art movement, and its diversity defies the increasing homogeneity of world graffiti.”  – Design Week

I wonder if the street artists are entirely happy with this blurring of the formal and informal in the name of tidiness.

So,  as I said ‘What do I know? I am left with some unanswered questions.
Does Graffiti have to be pretty, aesthetically pleasing, in the proper place  and legal?

Or ugly and harsh  saying things we don’t want to hear in the wrong place and therefore illegal?

Then what do we do with those who break the rules ?

and for me and my grandson who don’t do a good job?

Well I am only asking!

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Silent Sunday

February 24, 2013

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Saturday …

February 23, 2013

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As a ‘sufferer’ from various ‘conditions’  including the Empty Nest Syndrome; I have learned painful lessons of late.

First, the pain doesn’t go away. Second, trying to ignore the discomfort won’t work. Three, there are methods to ease the pain.
However, there are times when the tools one has carefully put in place to alleviate the pain sometimes can become tired and overused or even  forgotten.
On occasions I find myself wallowing in the pain; so doing the joys of the here and now are overlooked.
As you know I am preparing to visit my daughter in Brazil after a year from our previous visit.  Of course the year has flown by, as previously discussed it has been a good year. Mixed with some emotional turmoil, I would not changed a thing.  In fact the opposite I celebrate almost every waking moment, with the passion of glorious hindsight!” and another serious ‘condition’ of the ‘half full cup’!
However this week I did find myself in a pit of self pity; thinking about the What ifs? the ‘Whys?’ and ‘Wherefores?’  Counting the days before, and considering the misery after! Forgetting that i still had three weeks of joyous preparation.. Also, no less worthy my live goes on; me doing as I love at work and home … with my new found pleasure in printmaking, my blog and it pictures
I cannot hug my but blog but it hugs me.  Also my irises  those also previously discussed lounging on my window ledge, as a friend recently reminded me they too need care as they still struggle in this wintry light waiting for the spring sun.
While there are still 3 weeks to go before I go to Rio I will remember just that!

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Trifextra: Week Fifty-Six … Bizzy Lizzy

February 23, 2013

A word game from Trifecta, choose 33 words from page 33 of  Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Stroud.  and reshape those words into a piece of your own.  Your piece does not have to tell an entire story

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The incoming tide lapping at the water’s edge.  
The sailboat waited, for the woman with the child wrapped in a blanket. Who had hung the impatiens and wild violets by the front door?

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Friday’s library snapshot … Copernicus

February 22, 2013

This week it was Nicolaus Copernicus‘s birthday he was born 19th February 1473 he was Polish astronomer and mathematician. He formulated a comprehensive heliocentric model of the universe that places the the sun rather than the earth at the centre. Although this theory profoundly altered the thoughts of later scientific view of the universe it was rejected by the Catholic Church.
The publication of his book De revolutionibus orbium coelestium (On the revolutions of the celestial spheres) just before his death in 1543 is considered a major event in the history of science.

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Friday Check-In

February 21, 2013

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Since beginning my blog it has been a work in progress.First, I sought the advice from various bloggers but I have found myself alone; especially in the beginning when I didn’t get the comments and feedback I would liked.  I felt very vulnerable and alone. However as time went on I joined various ‘challenges’ some more successful than others.  Soon I felt less lonely and enjoyed a sense of a community.  Unfortunately this ‘broadening’  meant that I was beginning to ‘flit’ and moving away from my original plan. I then decided to draw in the reigns a little and ensure there was some  uniformity.  This has proved successful and now I can either perfect or diversify if required.  Joining this group means that I can do that or not; comfortably.  I hope! 

  1. What is your name (real or otherwise)? My adopted name is Nela Bligh

  2. Describe your writing style in three words. Informative, engaging and  rich

  3. How long have you been writing online? Almost 2 years

  4. Which, if any, other writing challenges do you participate in? 100 Word Challenge, Alphabethursday, Weekly Photo Challenge and Silent Sunday

  5. Describe one way in which you could improve your writing. Be more creative or experimental

  6. What is the best writing advice you’ve ever been given? Be yourself

  7. Who is your favorite author?  John Steinbeck, Doris Lessing, Raymond Carver etc. but enjoying Anne Dillard at present.

  8. How do you make time to write? I rise at 5am and with a notepad and camera at all times.

  9. Give us one word we should consider using as a prompt. Remember–it must have a third definition. Read, Travel,  Look

Direct us to one blog post of yours that we shouldn’t miss reading.

I have posted daily for over a year my heart goes into each.  It would be difficult to suggest one.  The ones from my childhood are good, Library snapshots, Wise Women and Stories from Brazil are fine.  A friend said this was one of my best yet …

Saturday and the advent of the trip to Rio!

but who knows?

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Trifecta: Week Sixty-Five … This week’s word is: exhaust

February 21, 2013

By using 33 words and the 3rd definition of Exhaust …

The exhaust pipe itself becomes exhausted when removing spent fumes from the engine. It becomes broken and noisy so much it needs repair or even replacing.  Life is hard for an exhaust pipe.

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See the website www. trifectawritingchallenge.com for more information and to see more entries.

Alphabe Thursday … N is for Nursery Rhymes

February 21, 2013

In the UK , America and anywhere the English language is spoken, children enjoy listening to the same traditional verses. This has changed over the last decades, but certainly I was immersed in nursery rhymes at least until late 1950s and the early 1960s when popular music became ‘heard’ on the radio and the BBC.

In the New World and indeed the old a child’s first ‘poems’ or poetic memories were Mary, Mary quite contrary, Humpty Dumpty and Old King Cole etc.
The only difference was that in England these songs were called Nursery Rhymes and in America they were called Mother Goose Songs.
The term ‘nursery rhymes seems to have come on to use about 1824; until then they had been called ‘songs’ or ‘ditties’ and earlier in the 18th century usually as Tom Thumb’s’ songs or Mother Goose’s’ the name retained in America.   

Nursery Rhymes 1

Nursery Rhymes 2

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Nursery Rhymes 3

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Further reading The Oxford dictionary of nursery rhymes edited by Iona and Peter Opie

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