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Growing up on a houseboat.

January 8, 2014

As I look back and reflect; I wonder why boats are female so perhaps this reminiscence fits in with Women on Wednesday

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At the end of Crableck Lane where it met the Hamble there was a jetty where a group of boats were moored. Our house boat Miscellany was nearby and was my family home from 1952-1962.
The boats by the jetty were the homes of people who had come before and during the war to escape the bombing raids. Nevil Shute’s 1938 novel What Happened to the Corbetts shows that even threat of war brought a ‘fear’ that city life would be obliterated and those remaining would be at risk not just of bombs but of disease and starvation. Although this didn’t happen, Southampton was badly hit and many homes destroyed. So those with boats used them; there were moorings along the river and the ‘boat-yards,’ such as Deacons,Elephant  and Faulkes became populated because there was a water supply and links to the local towns and schools. Most people moved…

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Weekly Photo Challenge … beginning

January 7, 2014

I am well practiced at new new beginnings; however that doesn’t make them any easier.  I cite an oft quoted phrase from the mouth of CJ in The rise and fall of Reggie Perrin ‘ I didn’t get where I am now’ … without refining the art of starting again.  I have come back after divorce, redundancy, death of family,  friends and even a pet; life has not not always been kind.

One would think Christmas and a New Year would be plain sailing, especially as previously described I have pretty much ironed out any potential problems.

To that end Christmas was fine and New Year seemed to hold no false hopes; so it seemed business as usual;  a  night in with Jules Holland, a glass of sparkling and a few carefully worded New Year’s resolutions,  just in case anyone asked.  For example:- refrain from Sparkling Wine  for 12 months and remain in my quest for peace in the realm of Nela Bligh. Not too difficult to keep up for a day or two.

But sadly this has not been the case; first, my husband has been diagnosed with an uncomfortable  stomach complaint; not too serious and curable. With medication, a change of diet and no alcohol and coffee etc he will recover.  In some respects this is a good opportunity to consolidate a good diet and look forward to a healthier beginning to a new year.

Then my mother died; she was elderly and very poorly; she was not confined to bed so the end was not yet expected. We did not have the opportunity to say good bye.  A fond farewell is,  as it sounds a nice way to end.  It marks a beginning; it is a blessing.

I feel let down; especially as my dad died in similar circumstances, almost 20 years ago, he suffered a mighty heart attack as he rose from his bed one morning. Gone without saying good bye.  

Meanwhile; I am well practiced;  people, pets and opportunities come and go … I remain alone and a little wiser this is enough to begin with.

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Laying the table

January 6, 2014

Mother, hot and dishevelled cleared a space on the dining room table and placed a steaming pot of stew carefully in the middle. I had been told to lay the table, hurriedly my comics and books were put on a coffee table nearby.
The stew had been added to and reheated from the day before. Tuesday – was family allowance day when my mother would buy fresh meat – scrag end of neck and swede. To make a stew that would last until payday –with luck.
I was gathering utensils from the side board trying hard to remember my right from left as I placed them on the table. Teresa was distributing – bowls and plates. Our concentration was immense. The boy not yet fully weaned would have a tiny bowl. Nicki not yet started school would have just a bowl, father and mother a larger willow pattern soup plate with a wide lip for stew and bread to dunk. She placed tea cups, a bottle of milk and the sugar bag leaving a little space for the tea pot to come later. Teresa and I having been to school and had dinner would only require ‘tea’ of bread and cake. The dining table was a buzz – food and bodies coming and going.
The bread had been cut into healthy chunks and the angel cake sliced carefully into five pieces –the boy did not get cake yet!
We assembled, the girls seated at the table. My mother came from the kitchen with a pot of tea and placed it on the table. Turning, she removed her apron and shoes and slipped her feet into her slippers warming by the grate. She added some wood to the fire and poked the dying embers. She picked up the baby boy and took her seat at the head of table and put baby to her breast.
The cat leapt from its place of safety on the window sill to the warm place on the settee vacated by the baby. The dog that had been curled by the rocking chair stood up, stretched and went to the kitchen to look for the neck bones now removed from the stew.
My father came from his work shop, went to the toilet and heard the pump groan as he ‘flushed’ then washed his hands in the kitchen sink. Coming into the dining room he picked up a magazine from the coffee table and propped it against the pot of stew. My mother had already served him a portion with rather more meat. He was clearly in a mood – he didn’t usually read at the table  … apart from the baby gurgles the only sound was the clock and the purr of the tilly lamp.
My father took his spoon and blowing his food, reached from behind the paper to take a piece of bread. Instead he took some angel cake. My mother did not notice as she helped my little sister eat her soup and prepare a little pap for the boy. Teresa was distracted by the dog who had wandered back to get scraps from under the table. I held my breath and bit my lip – he hadn’t noticed, in fact he reached again for some more bread. I needed to be nippy, I wanted cake! I quickly swopped the plates so that he took bread. Relieved, I continued to eat my paste sandwich and prepared to pour the tea.

Silent Sunday

January 5, 2014

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2013 in review

January 4, 2014

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 23,000 times in 2013. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 9 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

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Endeavour, Lulworth and Velsheda … ladies- in- waiting.

January 4, 2014

Today I continue to reblog; these stories are from my childhood and written as part of a future memoir …

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One of the inhabitants of Crableck was rich enough to employ my father as a boat builder and handyman to maintain three rather special ladies he had acquired before the war. There was Lulworth, 151 foot, ocean going gaff rig cutter – gaff rig describes the 4 cornered main sail and cutter means she is fast.  She was was built by the White Brothers in 1920 for Richard H. Lee who sailed her in the premier yachting league in Europe.

Her farewell race was in 1930. In 1947 she was saved from the scrap yard by Mr and Mrs Lucas my father’s employer, who mud- berthed her and she became their home.

Befitting of a lady who had waited so patiently , in 1990 with much deterioration her hull was shipped to Italy, where she was restored and sailed again. Lulworth is currently the world’s largest race cutter.

Then there…

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In the absence of a library snapshot …

January 3, 2014

Today I usually invite you to look into the library; but it has been closed and I rather foolishly didn’t go to work and have the opportunity to grab a snapshot in my lunch break …

but I have a good excuse!

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Yesterday; proved to be wonderful day in more ways than one.  Although it did seem for while things were going awry. Wednesday , we  made plans for the next day, forgetting that it was in fact a ‘school’ day for me.  After a day or two of appalling weather we decided to just ‘go out!’ As it happened the weather was kind; the sun shone all day in a cloudless blue sky.  We decided to visit a tea shop in Bristol a 100 or so miles away.  It didn’t seem too far away just for a cup tea, After all it was our holiday wasn’t it and we had all the time in the world?  It was a perfect journey; this part Berkshire and Wiltshire are particularly beautiful and I made some Ravilious style prints in my head.  Even attempting to recognise and name the trees as we drove past; bit of a fruitless exercise as none of us had a clue which was which.  However, it did make me aware that even a tree without leaves has a distinct shape and even the evergreens had stark differences against the wintry backdrop.

When we arrived in Bristol a big city, we had no idea where the tea shop was so we bought a map and carefully found our way around one-way system that doesn’t ever make map reading in a city easy. However during this time, I discovered  via a kindly twitter message that I had been missed work. My colleague thinking as I had not booked leave, had forgotten to come to work.  Not sure if forget is the correct word; certainly I had misjudged the days,’what with the previous joys and rain’  

Unable to correct this rather embarrassing mistake I made the necessary reply and we carried on the journey happily.  It would have been churlish to my guests to do otherwise.  

Sadly, when we found the the address of the cafe; it was no longer there. I gave them a ring to question this, to find they had in fact it closed a few months before and were now only a online outlet in another part of town.  They had not updated the online information for potential ‘off line’ visitors.  After a minor tantrum (mine)  we found a nice art gallery and a flower shop and I smoothed my battered equilibrium  with some retail therapy.  Soon with our new map we found our way to Clifton and its famous suspension Bridge and eateries for lunch.   All was not lost!

Later we ventured back into visit the Arnolfini Art centre … although the exhibition showing was not the finest; the area in the old docks and in the view of the cathedral is very lovely and even more special as the the sun still shone. So, while we had not met up with on-line friends we had a good day.

Alphabe Thursday G is for Green

January 2, 2014

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Green, I learned as child and enjoyed more recently comes from mixing yellow with blue.  The Medieval illuminators used yellow from the saffron plant, crocus combined with azurite to make green. Also, Cennino says that a blend of saffron and verdigris, brought to Germany from Spain since Roman times, produces the most ‘perfect green grass colour imaginable’.

Unfortunately, Verdigris although very popular was not always well behaved. Sometimes the organic acids used to make it would attack the paper or parchment, leaving neat holes, looking as if the painting had been eaten by ‘green-loving insects’.

So it soon became important to find a more kindly alternative; so in the 14th century two new greens became available, sap  and iris.

Sap green was made from the juice of the blackthorn berries; this was already thick enough to be used without a binder.  Also, if some gum is added it can used as a water colour and still available to this day.   

Iris green is made from the juice of the iris flower mixed with alum to thicken it.  

Both these greens like folium and weld,  are not mined from the ground but grew in the meadows and more easily available to monks and those who were  illuminating manuscripts.  

Heraclius who was a Byzantine Emperor from 610 to 641 and responsible for introducing Greek as the Eastern Empire’s official language said :-

‘He who wishes to convert flowers into various colours which, for the purpose of writing, as the page of the book demands, must wander over the cornfields early in the morning, and he will find various flowers fresh sprung up’.

Wednesday Women … Seneca

January 1, 2014

Happy New Year

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On Wednesday I usually  honour women and and their wisdom.  After much research I soon discovered that her wise-ness was or is  considered foolishness by some.  So the word wise was dropped; women and wisdom are synonymous in my opinion.
So while I celebrate the New Year and send greetings to all beings I bring you a quote from Seneca … a gift from my daughter that I give to you with love.
“A woman is not beautiful when her ankle or arm wins compliments, but when her total appearance diverts admiration from the individual parts of her body.”

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‘I’ve got a Little List’ (W S Gilbert)

January 1, 2014

While my daughter is here in the UK our days have been punctuated with gifts and tea … and a ceremony usually of mutual admiration … but I remember times when tea was just tea …

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In 1959, when I was almost 10 years old my mother had my baby brother – I already had two little sisters and as the oldest I became mother’s ‘helper.’

One of my tasks was doing the weekly shop.

First, I had to go to my father’s workplace and pick up five pounds from his pay packet (he got nine pounds a week) at 12 noon when he got paid.  Then, I walked along a foot-path on the side of the river Hamble for about one and a half miles to the nearest shop, I had two bags, carefully crafted by my father from a sail that was no longer usable – for a little girl they were heavy enough even when empty.

With those and a shopping list carefully written by my mother, I hurried to the shop that would shut at 1pm on the dot for the weekend.

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