Last week I learned that … all is not lost!
Last week it seemed that the Empty Nest Syndrome was an unrelenting condition. After many years of tender parenting the shock of a child leaving home and its waves can hit like a thunder bolt. Then, out of the blue when life seems to be so cruel a gentle reminder makes everything worthwhile again.
Fortunately, this roller coaster for us has become less painful; and we have learned little tricks that lighten the load.
On my daughter’s birthday in August we had a Skype breakfast together. We prepared identical food and white wine and cleverly placed our laptops so we could eat and drink together. Even being 5 hours apart didn’t dampen our sense of occasion. After her breakfast and our lunch; I took the ‘tablet’ around the house so she could see the ‘old place.’ We in turn saw about her tiny home where we had spent a happy holiday earlier this year.
This very weekend my daughter sent me poem via Facebook by Ceciala Meirles and another by Violeta Parra arrived by Royal Mail a week earlier . Today, I recieved pictures by email from Centro Cultural Banco do Brasil where Antony Gormley has an exhibition.
My daughter so far away brings me much joy and I will never regret her leaving home … I honour her and her family in Brazil.
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